The Importance Of Sex And How To Embrace It

By So Divine Sexpert, Jess

A good sex life is great for your overall well-being. It has a number of benefits from improving sleep quality to easing anxiety, so why do so many people struggle to embrace their sex life?

Sex is more often than not seen as a taboo subject. In reality, seeking a fulfilling sex life is normal, and understanding your sexual health can help you lead a happier life. If you’re still nervous about starting your sexual journey, then don’t fret because here are some simple ways to help you conquer your sex life.

UNDERSTANDING SEXUALITY

Oftentimes the physical act of sex seems like the most crucial aspect of your sexual health journey, however, understanding your sexuality is just as important. Your sexuality is not determined by who you’re having sex with, but by how you identify yourself. Since sexuality can come in many different forms, understanding your own sexuality will help you feel more confident and comfortable with yourself, which will translate into the bedroom.

It can be tricky to navigate and fully understand your sexuality. If you’re someone who needs a label to understand yourself or someone who chooses no label at all, remember the choice is completely yours. There is no right or wrong way to identify yourself, so do not rush the process! Take your time to research through books, movies, or other people’s experiences. This can be a tough process, but will benefit you and your mental health in the long run.

PRACTISING SELF-LOVE

Loving yourself sounds simple enough but for many, it’s where they struggle the most. Self-love is the ability to appreciate not only your personality, but also your body. Self-love helps break you from insecurities and self-doubt that might prevent you from being your best, most sensual self. In order to move past your self-doubt and benefit from a healthy sex life, you have to get to know yourself and your body.

The first step in feeling more confident with yourself is to get to know your body and what turns you on. Understanding sexual pleasure can feel awkward or embarrassing, but trust the process. Start simple by touching yourself, and see how you respond to sexual stimulation. If you struggle to orgasm, then incorporate a self-pleasure vibrator while masturbating. Using a vibrator will help you focus on your needs and pleasure without the added stress of someone else’s desires. Regardless of how you practice self-love, once you master it, you will see a change in your confidence and your sexual abilities.

DISCUSSING YOUR INSECURITIES 

We all have insecurities, and when you add sex to the mix, your insecurities feel maximized. It’s hard to feel your sexiest self when you struggle with self-image or other bedroom-related insecurities—but don’t let it stop you from enjoying yourself and your partner. Remember, most insecurities stem from expectations you’ve learned from magazines, porn, and other outlets. You think your body has to move or look a certain way, but in reality, sex is whatever you want it to be, so don’t feel embarrassed.

Communication is an essential part of your sexual journey, so talk to your partner about what is making you feel anxious. This creates a safe space where you can discuss insecurities or how to make sex a better experience for both parties. However, if your insecurities are hindering your performance due to nervousness or other medical issues, then consider treatment options like Sildenafil for ed. Insecurities are normal, so don’t let them control your sex life.

INCLUDE YOUR PARTNER

Now that you have mastered your alone time, it’s time to introduce your partner to everything you’ve learned! If on your journey for sexual empowerment you discovered a kink of yours, then introduce them into your relationship. Start off by using hypotheticals to help get your partners interested. Using hypotheticals will help your partner visualize and understand clearly what you want.

You can even ask to go sex toy shopping with your partner to build suspense. Including them in on the fun will open a conversation on what feels best for you and also gauge what you both are willing to try. Mutual masturbation is also a fun and beneficial way to change up the day-to-day while experimenting with one another. Including your partner in your sexual endeavors will bring you both closer and add some life into the bedroom.

Sex should be fun, regardless of how many people are involved or if it’s just yourself. Sex is also extremely beneficial to your mental and physical health, so don’t put too much pressure on yourself to be perfect at it, and remember you should be enjoying yourself too!

 

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